Figuring Me Out

Figuring Me Out

Sometimes, as women we get lost in our relationships... lost in all the roles we assume on a daily basis. I know I've posted a couple of times recently about who I am and perhaps you all are getting tired of reading about my process of figuring me out, but ...

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Potty Training? Um, No.

Potty Training? Um, No.

Zoe has developed a nasty little habit. She will "boo boo" and then decide immediately that she wants nothing to do with her diaper. So she takes it off. Imagine a 20 month old professional climber making her way up the side of my executive desk with a huge grin ...

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How To Change the World

How To Change the World

This morning, I saw a tweet about Saddleback's online campus. For those who are unaware, Saddleback church was created by Rick Warren using his amazing church model, which is wrote about in his book Purpose Driven Church which now is an official ministry of Saddleback Church and actually has its ...

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Zoe Will Be 20 Months in 7 Days

Zoe Will Be 20 Months in 7 Days

Zoe is wearing my old t-ball shirt from when I was like 5 years old, Talia's shoes, and Tre's shorts. LOL :) Still super cute! Hmmm... I think I will do a little flipping... This didn't quite turn out right LOL I cannot believe how quickly she has grown! It seems like ...

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There Snow Place Like Home

There Snow Place Like Home

Yesterday morning, it started snowing... well flurry-ing... In Louisiana, that's a major deal. We can just about run around in shorts all winter. It gets cold for about 10 minutes and then it's summer all of a sudden. There's no fall and no spring. LOL Here is a photo of ...

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My Girls :)

My Girls :)

When the kids miss the bus, I often use our time stuck in the car line to snap a few shots of them before school. Here are a few of Avalyn, Talia, and Briyana from a few days ago:

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Fibromyalgia, Tumors, and Me

Fibromyalgia, Tumors, and Me

I've had a surprising amount of dialog lately about Fibromyalgia. I have to say it's refreshing to have so many people know what it is... and relate to me. Being diagnosed 18 years ago, I grew up accepting that I had a disorder that no one understood - that many ...

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Jealousy and Dreams {Life}

Jealousy and Dreams {Life}

I can't honestly say I don't get knots in my stomach when I listen to some of the newest music artists. Having a singing career has always been my dream, but as life would have it - I've had no real opportunities to pursue it... I sometimes am jealous that ...

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The Me That I Am

The Me That I Am

With life as busy as it is, I admit there normally aren't many chances throughout the weeks to stop and seriously consider who I am... or what I am doing. I'm one of those people who - no matter how much I try to plan and schedule - typically ends ...

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When I was going through my old poetry the night before last, I found some very disturbing pieces… but I also found some I can still relate to. This would be one of them >>> (One of my quotes earlier actually came from a segment I remembered reading…) I was 13 when I wrote this!

Have you ever been in my shoes?
Have you ever walked this mile?

Have you ever caught a stone in the face?
Have you ever been on trial?

Have you ever had your faults yelled out?
Have you ever been abused?
Have you ever had a blister
from walking in my shoes?

Have you ever been misled?
Have you ever been misused?
Have you ever misinterpreted
my point of view?

Have you ever sliced your wrists?
Have you ever O.D’d?
Have you ever known YOU
while BEING me?

Have you ever wondered free
without knowing where you are?
Have you ever known the feeling
of wishing on someone else’s star?

Have you ever been abandoned?
Ever felt you had no home?
If you’ve never walked in my shoes,
leave me the **** alone.

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Obviously there are a couple of parts that I CAN’T still relate to (and I did bleep out the curse word at the end) but the general point is important – we can’t judge or criticize something we’ve never experienced, yet at times we can be all to quick to do so. We never know where another person has been, so where they are NOW may be a great accomplishment…

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